As a 'doer' it is sometimes hard to sit back and watch others 'do.' The trust it takes to let others do their jobs, or take care of their responsibilities comes from deep inside the person watching. It not only works with adults, it works with children.
There are many ways to accomplish the same task. If one of them is the way we would do it, we usually call that 'the right way' without thinking what this does to others around us. In their minds, they have a solution plotted. Talking through the 'doers' solution usually will set the watcher's mind at ease --- especially if the 'watcher' is also the 'listnener.'
Use time today to be a watcher and listener and see if the world around you can really get things done without always doing them your way.

